In the context of dissociative identity disorder (DID) or other specified dissociative disorders, "IRL" stands for "In Real Life." It is used to distinguish between online interactions or personas and the actual, offline, physical life of individuals.
People with dissociative identity disorder may form connections and relationships with others in online communities, forums, or support groups where they can discuss their experiences, share coping strategies, and provide mutual support. In these online spaces, individuals might interact using different usernames or avatars, and they may identify with different aspects of themselves or their alters.
When they refer to something happening "IRL," it means they are talking about events or interactions that are occurring in their physical, real-world life rather than in the virtual or online space. This distinction is particularly relevant for individuals with DID, as they may have different identities or alters with unique characteristics and experiences, and these may manifest differently in online settings compared to face-to-face interactions. The term "IRL" helps clarify that the discussion or topic pertains to their offline, in-person experiences.
It is essential to be sensitive and respectful when communicating with individuals who have dissociative disorders, as discussions about their experiences, identities, and coping mechanisms can be deeply personal and meaningful to them. Being aware of terminology like "IRL" can help facilitate clear and respectful communication in these contexts.