I can provide some general insights into how family members might react to disclosures of trauma and how their reactions can differ if another family member is responsible for the trauma.
Reactions to disclosures of trauma can vary significantly depending on the family's dynamics, individual personalities, cultural background, and their understanding of trauma and mental health. Here are some common reactions:
Supportive and Understanding: Some family members may respond with empathy, compassion, and a willingness to listen and help. They may offer emotional support and encourage seeking professional assistance, such as therapy, to cope with the trauma.
Denial or Disbelief: Trauma can be challenging for some family members to accept, especially if it involves the actions of another family member. They might deny or disbelieve the disclosure, which can be further distressing for the person who experienced the trauma.
Guilt and Shame: Family members who were unaware of the trauma or unable to protect the individual might experience guilt and shame. They may feel responsible for not having prevented the traumatic event or not recognizing the signs earlier.
Anger and Defensiveness: If the trauma was caused by another family member, it can lead to intense emotions within the family. Some members might become angry or defensive, either protecting the perpetrator or trying to minimize the severity of the trauma.
Support for the Perpetrator: In some cases, certain family members may support the perpetrator, either out of denial or because they prioritize maintaining family cohesion over addressing the trauma.
Avoidance and Silence: Some families may respond by avoiding the topic of trauma altogether or maintaining a culture of silence around it. This can hinder the healing process and create further distress for the affected individual.
It's important to remember that everyone's reactions can be complex and multifaceted. Seeking professional therapy or counseling, both individually and as a family, can help navigate these difficult emotions and facilitate healing and understanding. Therapy can provide a safe space to address trauma, establish healthier communication patterns, and promote family support during the recovery process.