The ability of a husband (or a wife) to refuse a divorce can vary depending on the legal system and the laws of the specific jurisdiction in which the divorce is being sought. Different countries and states have different divorce laws, and the processes and requirements can vary significantly.
In some jurisdictions, divorce laws are "no-fault," meaning that neither spouse needs to prove wrongdoing or obtain the other spouse's consent to get a divorce. In such cases, if one spouse wants a divorce and meets the legal requirements, the court can grant the divorce even if the other spouse objects.
In other jurisdictions, divorce laws may be fault-based, and one spouse might be able to contest the divorce based on specific grounds (e.g., adultery, cruelty, abandonment). In these cases, the spouse seeking the divorce may need to provide evidence to support the grounds for divorce. The court will then evaluate the evidence and decide whether the divorce should be granted.
It's important to consult with a family law attorney familiar with the laws of your specific jurisdiction to understand the divorce process and the rights and obligations of each party involved. An attorney can provide advice tailored to your situation and explain the legal options available to you. Additionally, the availability of legal aid, the division of assets, custody of children, and other factors can further impact the divorce proceedings, so seeking professional legal advice is essential to navigate the process effectively.