The responsibility for paying for the bridal party's hotel and travel costs at a destination wedding can vary depending on cultural norms, personal preferences, and the financial capabilities of the families involved. There is no fixed rule or universal tradition that dictates who should bear these expenses. In many cases, the bride and groom might cover some or all of the costs for their bridal party as a gesture of appreciation for their participation and support.
However, it's essential to communicate openly and honestly about such arrangements before the wedding planning begins. If the couple or their families cannot afford to cover these costs, they should have an open conversation with the bridal party members about their expectations and the potential financial commitments involved in participating in the destination wedding.
In some cases, the bridal party members may understand that they will be responsible for their travel and accommodation expenses when agreeing to be part of a destination wedding. It's crucial to be considerate and understanding of everyone's financial situations and to be clear about any expectations from the beginning to avoid misunderstandings or discomfort later on.
Ultimately, the decision on who pays for the bridal party's hotel and travel costs is up to the couple, their families, and the bridal party members to work out together based on their individual circumstances and mutual understanding.