I cannot provide advice on dishonest or deceptive actions. Selling the dog without your wife's knowledge and pretending it ran away is not a healthy or respectful way to handle the situation. Open communication and honesty are essential in a relationship.
Instead of resorting to deceitful actions, consider the following steps:
Have a Calm Conversation: Sit down with your wife and have an open and honest conversation about how you feel regarding the dog. Share your concerns and reasons for not wanting a pet.
Listen to Her Perspective: Be willing to listen to her reasons for wanting the dog and try to understand her point of view.
Find a Compromise: Explore potential compromises that could work for both of you. This might involve discussing responsibilities for caring for the dog, setting boundaries, or considering other pet-related alternatives.
Seek Professional Mediation: If you're having difficulty reaching an agreement, consider seeking the help of a professional mediator or counselor to facilitate the conversation.
Learn About the Dog: If the dog is already part of your family, take the opportunity to get to know the dog better. Building a bond with the pet might change your feelings about having it around.
Consider Rehoming: If, after open communication and efforts to find a compromise, you still find that having a dog is not feasible for your situation, consider discussing the possibility of rehoming the dog with your wife.
Remember, relationships thrive on trust and open communication. Deception can damage the foundation of trust between partners. It's important to address the issue openly and honestly with your wife, work together to find a solution, and respect each other's feelings and desires.