Yes, some people use their phones when they are with other people as a way to avoid seeming rude or awkward, even if they are not doing anything important. This behavior is often called "phone snubbing" or "phubbing" (phone + snubbing), and it has become quite common in today's smartphone-centric society.
There are various reasons why people engage in this behavior:
Social discomfort: Some individuals may feel anxious or uncomfortable in social situations, and using their phones can provide a sense of security or distraction from the social interaction.
Fear of missing out (FOMO): People might be worried about missing out on important updates, messages, or social media interactions, even if they are not actively engaged in anything significant.
Habit: Constantly checking one's phone has become a habit for many people, and they might do it subconsciously without even realizing it.
Boredom: If the conversation or activity they are engaged in is not stimulating enough, individuals may resort to using their phones for entertainment.
However, while it might be a common behavior, excessive phone use in social settings can be perceived as disrespectful or dismissive of the people present. It can hinder genuine connection and make others feel unimportant or ignored. Striking a balance between being present in the moment and using one's phone is essential for maintaining meaningful and respectful interactions with others.