No, it is not okay to park in a handicapped spot unless you have a valid handicapped parking permit or placard. Accessible parking spaces are designated specifically for people with disabilities, who may require additional space or accommodations to access medical facilities and other services easily.
Even if you are providing assistance to a disabled elderly neighbor, it does not justify using a handicapped spot without the appropriate permit. It's essential to respect the designated spaces for people with disabilities to ensure that those who truly need them have access to them when they arrive.
If the parking lot is full, look for alternative parking spaces that are available, even if they are farther away. Ensure your neighbor is comfortable with the distance they need to walk, and offer assistance if needed. If there are no available parking spots nearby, consider dropping your neighbor off at the entrance and then finding a suitable parking spot further away.
Remember, handicapped parking spots are reserved for individuals with disabilities, and using them without authorization can result in fines or other legal consequences. Always prioritize accessibility and follow parking regulations to support a more inclusive and considerate community.