When you're on an airplane and need assistance from a flight attendant but don't want to disturb sleeping passengers around you, there are a few etiquette tips to follow:
Assess the situation: Before using the call button, assess whether your request is urgent or can wait until the flight attendants come by for a routine check. If it's something that can wait, try to be patient and avoid using the call button unnecessarily.
Use the call button discreetly: If you do need to use the call button, do so discreetly. Avoid pressing it repeatedly or holding it down for an extended period. A brief press should be enough to get their attention.
Time your request: If you know that the cabin crew will be passing by your seat shortly, consider waiting for them to approach and then make your request in person. This way, you can avoid using the call button altogether.
Be considerate of others: If you see that the person next to you is sleeping, lean slightly to the aisle side when pressing the call button to minimize any disturbance.
Keep requests reasonable: When you do get the flight attendant's attention, be concise and polite with your request. Try to keep the requests reasonable and necessary, so you're not unnecessarily interrupting the crew's workflow.
Anticipate needs: If you anticipate needing something during the flight, like a drink refill or a blanket, you can let the flight attendant know when they are nearby during their regular rounds. This can prevent the need for additional calls later on.
Utilize the flight attendant call light in the lavatory: Some airplanes have a separate call button inside the lavatory to alert flight attendants discreetly when you require their assistance without calling them from your seat.
Remember that the flight attendants are there to assist you, so don't hesitate to seek help when you need it. Just be mindful of others around you and use the call button thoughtfully and respectfully.