Etiquette for bridal showers can vary depending on cultural norms and personal preferences, but here are some general guidelines:
Invitations: Bridal shower invitations are usually sent out by the host or the bridal party. If you receive an invitation, it is considered polite to respond promptly, even if you are unable to attend.
RSVP: Yes, it is essential to RSVP to the bridal shower, regardless of whether you are invited to the wedding or not. RSVPing allows the host to plan accordingly, including arranging seating, food, and other accommodations.
Gifts: Bringing a gift to the bridal shower is customary, as the event is meant to "shower" the bride with gifts to help her start her married life. However, if you're not attending the bridal shower, there's no obligation to send a gift. If you choose to send one, it's a nice gesture but not mandatory.
Attire: Dress appropriately for the occasion. If the invitation doesn't specify a dress code, a nice dress or outfit is generally suitable.
Punctuality: Try to arrive on time to the bridal shower as a sign of respect for the host and the other guests.
Participation: Engage in the activities and games that the host has planned, and be supportive of the bride-to-be.
Thank You Notes: If you attend the bridal shower and bring a gift, it's thoughtful to send a thank-you note to the host afterward. Additionally, if you receive a thank-you note for a gift you sent but couldn't attend the shower, you can respond with a brief acknowledgment.
Keep the focus on the bride: Remember that the bridal shower is about celebrating the bride-to-be, so try to keep the conversations positive and centered around her.
It's important to note that being invited to a bridal shower does not guarantee an invitation to the wedding. Bridal showers often include a broader guest list that may include friends, family members, and acquaintances, whereas the wedding itself may be more intimate with a limited number of guests. Whether you're invited to the wedding or not, showing consideration and following proper etiquette for the bridal shower is a sign of good manners and respect for the bride and the host.