The etiquette for uninvited guests at weddings can vary depending on the circumstances and cultural norms. In general, it is not appropriate for uninvited guests to attend a wedding without prior approval from the couple or the hosts. Weddings are typically planned with a specific guest count in mind, and unexpected additional guests can create logistical challenges and additional expenses.
If you receive an invitation to a wedding and want to bring someone who was not included on the invitation, it is essential to reach out to the couple or the hosts to inquire about the possibility of bringing an extra guest. Respect their decision if they decline due to space limitations or budget constraints.
Regarding payment for uninvited guests, it is customary for the hosts to cover the expenses for the guests they have invited. If you, as a guest, bring an uninvited guest and they are allowed to attend, it is generally expected that you would cover the cost for the additional person. This includes expenses like food, seating, and other wedding-related amenities.
However, the best course of action is to avoid putting the couple or hosts in an awkward situation by bringing uninvited guests in the first place. Always follow the instructions on the invitation and, if in doubt, communicate with the couple or hosts to clarify any questions you may have about the guest list or attendance. Being respectful and considerate of the couple's wishes and plans is the key to good wedding etiquette.