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It's often challenging to interpret other people's actions or behaviors accurately, especially without having a direct conversation with them. Here are a few possibilities as to why the two guys might be keeping distance:

  1. Comfort Level: They may not feel comfortable or familiar enough with you yet. This could be due to shyness, social anxiety, or simply a preference for keeping their own space.

  2. Misunderstandings: There might have been some misunderstanding or miscommunication that led them to distance themselves. They may have misinterpreted something you said or did.

  3. Personal Preferences: Some people prefer to keep a distance in general, regardless of the individual. It may not have anything to do with you personally.

  4. Preoccupied: They might be preoccupied with other things in their lives, like personal issues, stress, or academic pressures.

  5. Social Dynamics: Sometimes people distance themselves because of social dynamics or peer pressure.

  6. Avoiding Distractions: If they are focused on their studies, they might be trying to limit distractions, especially if they find your presence distracting (this can happen if they find you attractive, interesting, or just generally engaging).

It's important to remember not to jump to conclusions or assume it's something wrong with you. People's behaviors often have more to do with their own feelings, beliefs, and circumstances than they do with those around them. If you're comfortable doing so, consider talking to them to clear up any possible misunderstandings or confusion. Ask them in a respectful and non-confrontational manner if there's a reason for their distance.

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