Absolutely not. It is never okay for a parent or anyone else to encourage or condone self-harm or harm of any kind. Self-harm is a serious issue that can have severe physical and emotional consequences. Encouraging or dismissing such behavior is not only harmful but also highly irresponsible.
Parents should prioritize the safety and well-being of their children. If a parent notices that their child is struggling or engaging in self-harming behaviors, their immediate response should be to provide love, support, and seek professional help. This might involve talking to a mental health professional, counselor, or therapist who can help address the underlying issues causing the self-harm and provide appropriate treatment.
If you or someone you know is struggling with self-harm or suicidal thoughts, it's essential to reach out for help immediately. Talk to a trusted adult, friend, or counselor, or contact a helpline in your country. In the United States, you can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) or text "HELLO" to 741741 for Crisis Text Line. Remember, there is support available, and you don't have to go through this alone.