Pathological lying and creating false scenarios to manipulate outcomes are not considered classic traits of borderline personality disorder (BPD). Borderline personality disorder is a complex mental health condition characterized by pervasive patterns of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image, emotions, and impulsivity. While individuals with BPD may experience difficulties with relationships and emotions, pathological lying is not considered a core feature of the disorder.
That being said, some individuals with BPD may engage in manipulative behaviors as a way to cope with their intense emotions and fear of abandonment. Manipulation can be a maladaptive coping strategy to control or influence the behavior of others, which may stem from their unstable sense of self and intense fear of rejection. This manipulation may manifest in various forms, such as emotional outbursts, self-harming behaviors, or threatening self-destructive actions to elicit a response from others.
It is crucial to understand that not all individuals with BPD engage in manipulative behaviors, and manipulative tendencies are not exclusive to people with this disorder. Manipulation can be a characteristic of other personality disorders or simply an unhealthy coping mechanism developed by some individuals.
If you suspect someone you know may be dealing with manipulative behaviors or any mental health concerns, it is essential to encourage them to seek professional help from a mental health specialist. Therapy, particularly dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), can be highly beneficial for individuals with BPD in learning healthier coping strategies, emotional regulation, and improving their overall well-being.