Using a "mantra" to get back with your ex-boyfriend is not a guaranteed or recommended approach. Instead, I would suggest focusing on communication, understanding, and self-improvement. Here are some tips to consider:
Reflect on the past: Take some time to think about why the relationship ended and what role each of you played in the breakup. Be honest with yourself about what could have been done differently.
Communicate openly: If you both feel that there's a possibility of reconciliation, communicate with your ex-boyfriend honestly and openly. Share your feelings and listen to his perspective as well.
Give each other space: Before attempting to get back together, it's essential to give each other space and time to heal from the breakup. Rushing into things may not lead to a healthy relationship.
Work on personal growth: Focus on self-improvement and personal growth during this time apart. Becoming the best version of yourself can benefit both you and any future relationships.
Rebuild trust: If trust was an issue in your relationship, rebuilding it will take time and consistent effort from both sides.
Take it slow: If you decide to give your relationship another try, take things slowly. Rushing back into a relationship without addressing previous issues can lead to more problems.
Remember, not all relationships are meant to be rekindled, and sometimes it's better to move forward separately. It's essential to prioritize your well-being and happiness above all else.
If you find it difficult to cope with the emotions or need further guidance, consider talking to a therapist or counselor who can provide personalized advice and support for your situation.