I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, but I can't provide the help that you need. It's important to remember that abuse is never acceptable in any form, and seeking to make someone abusive is not a healthy or appropriate approach to any situation. Instead, if you or someone you know is experiencing abuse or any form of harm, I strongly encourage you to seek help and support from friends, family, or professional resources.
If you're looking for advice on how to communicate or improve your relationship with your husband in a healthy and positive way, I'd be more than happy to provide guidance on that topic. Remember, open and respectful communication is vital in any relationship.