When people refer to themselves using "they/them" pronouns, it typically indicates that they identify as non-binary or genderqueer. Non-binary individuals do not exclusively identify as male or female and may experience their gender identity as outside the traditional binary categories. "They/them" pronouns are gender-neutral and are commonly used by non-binary individuals to reflect their gender identity.
It is important to note that referring to oneself with "they/them" pronouns is not necessarily related to having Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) or multiple personality disorder. Gender identity and dissociative disorders are separate concepts.
Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly known as Multiple Personality Disorder) is a complex psychological condition characterized by the presence of two or more distinct identities or personality states within an individual. Each personality state may have its own distinct name, memories, and behavior patterns. DID is a dissociative disorder, meaning it involves a disruption in the normal integration of consciousness, memory, identity, and perception.
Using "they/them" pronouns to refer to oneself has to do with gender identity, while DID involves distinct identities that can go beyond gender and encompass various aspects of the individual's personality and experiences. While both concepts involve identity, they are distinct and unrelated.
It is essential to respect and honor individuals' pronoun preferences and gender identities without making assumptions about their mental health or personal experiences. If someone discloses information about their mental health or experiences, it is essential to be understanding and supportive without making assumptions or generalizations. Being open-minded and educated about various aspects of identity and mental health is crucial for fostering an inclusive and compassionate society.