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Persecutor alters in Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) are one type of identity state that may emerge within the system. They are often seen as "protectors" in the sense that their behavior is driven by a strong desire to keep the system (the collection of all alters) or the host (the primary identity) safe, even though their methods may be distressing or challenging for others within the system or the external environment.

Persecutor alters can be experienced as scary or intimidating because they may exhibit behaviors that are aggressive, critical, or hostile. These behaviors often stem from their belief that being aggressive or dominant is the best way to protect the system from perceived threats or potential harm. It's essential to remember that the persecutor alter is not inherently malevolent; their actions are driven by the need to protect and defend.

Persecutor alters may attempt to protect the system or the host in various ways, such as:

  1. Pushing others away: They may act in ways that discourage others from getting close to the system or the host, believing that forming relationships can lead to vulnerability and potential harm.

  2. Setting boundaries: Persecutors may create strict rules and boundaries to maintain control and protect the system from perceived dangers.

  3. Keeping traumatic memories at bay: Persecutors may be tasked with holding and managing traumatic memories, thereby shielding other alters or the host from experiencing the full impact of these memories.

Regarding the interaction with people outside the system, yes, some alters within a person with DID may harbor deep distrust or even detest people due to past experiences of abuse or trauma. These alters might choose to avoid interactions or become elusive as a coping mechanism to protect themselves and the system from further harm.

It's important to approach these complexities with empathy and understanding, recognizing that each alter within a system has its own unique experiences, emotions, and ways of coping. The process of healing and integration in DID often involves working with these different parts to build internal cooperation and promote a more cohesive sense of self.

Therapy, particularly Trauma-Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, can play a significant role in helping individuals with DID explore and understand the different identities within their system, find healthy coping mechanisms, and work towards integration and cooperation among alters.

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