The term "multiple personalities disorder" is an outdated and incorrect term for the condition we now refer to as Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). In the context of DID, it's essential to use appropriate terminology to avoid perpetuating stigma and misconceptions surrounding the disorder.
Regarding the question of control and manipulation of alters (distinct identities within a person with DID), it's crucial to understand that the experience of having DID is complex and can vary widely among individuals. People with DID have different relationships with their alters, and their level of control and communication with these identities can differ significantly.
In some cases, individuals with DID may have a degree of control over their switches between alters, and they may be aware of the existence of these identities. This state is often referred to as "co-consciousness," where the individual has some level of awareness when an alter is in control.
On the other hand, some individuals with DID may have limited or no control over when switches occur, and they may experience significant memory gaps during these switches. This lack of awareness is referred to as "amnesia" or "time loss."
The relationship between the "host" (the primary identity) and the alters can also vary. Some individuals may have good communication and cooperation among alters, while others may experience conflicts and challenges in managing their different identities.
As for manipulation, it's important to clarify that DID is not a deliberate or willful attempt to deceive others. The presence of different identities is a response to severe trauma during childhood, and the formation of alters is considered a coping mechanism to handle overwhelming experiences. While it's possible for some individuals to work towards cooperation and understanding among their alters through therapy, it is not a form of manipulation but rather a way to promote harmony and healing.
As always, it's essential to approach discussions about DID with empathy, understanding, and without judgment. People with DID deserve support and respect as they navigate the complexities of their condition and work towards recovery.