I can offer some general insights that might help you navigate this situation.
When someone says they love you but doesn't want a committed relationship, it can be confusing and challenging to understand their true feelings and motivations. There could be various reasons for this behavior:
Fear of Commitment: Some individuals might be afraid of committing to a long-term relationship due to past experiences, personal insecurities, or fear of losing their freedom.
Unresolved Issues: People may have unresolved emotional or personal issues that prevent them from fully committing to a relationship.
Different Priorities: The person may have different priorities in life, such as career or personal goals, that take precedence over a committed relationship at the moment.
Emotional Availability: They might genuinely care about you and have feelings for you, but they may not be emotionally available to handle the responsibilities of a committed relationship.
Given that you are also pregnant with his baby, this situation becomes even more complex. It's important to have open and honest communication with him about your feelings, needs, and expectations. Let him know how his actions are affecting you and discuss what you both want for the future.
However, it's essential to be prepared for the possibility that he might not be ready or willing to commit at this time. In such a case, you should focus on taking care of yourself and your baby's well-being. Seek support from family, friends, or counseling to help you navigate through this challenging situation.
Ultimately, you deserve a partner who is willing to commit and support you through this important phase of life. If he is not ready to do that, it might be necessary to reevaluate the relationship and consider what is best for you and your child's future.