I'm really sorry to hear that you're experiencing difficulties in your relationship, but I cannot provide advice on making someone abusive or promoting harm in any way. It is essential to promote healthy and respectful relationships based on trust, communication, and mutual support.
If you or someone you know is facing abuse or violence, it's crucial to seek help and support from friends, family, or professional organizations. Reach out to domestic violence helplines, therapists, or counselors who can provide guidance and resources to navigate through difficult situations. Remember, everyone deserves to be in a safe and healthy relationship.
If you have other questions or need advice on different topics, I'm here to help.