It is not necessarily "normal" for a boyfriend to avoid being seen with their partner in public, but it can happen for various reasons. In a healthy and committed relationship, both partners should feel comfortable being seen together and showing affection in public if they choose to do so. However, there might be some reasons why a boyfriend may hesitate or avoid public displays of affection (PDA) or being seen with their partner:
Privacy Concerns: Some people are more private and prefer to keep their personal life out of the public eye. They might be uncomfortable with excessive attention or scrutiny from others.
Insecurity or Fear of Judgment: Your boyfriend may worry about what others might think or say about the relationship. This fear of judgment could lead him to avoid public outings.
Previous Negative Experiences: Past negative experiences, such as being judged or criticized in public, may make someone reluctant to be seen with their partner in public.
Cultural or Social Factors: Cultural or societal norms and expectations can play a role in how comfortable someone feels displaying affection or being seen with their partner in public.
Commitment Issues: In some cases, a partner may be avoiding public appearances because they are not fully committed to the relationship or are unsure about the future.
Regardless of the reason, it is essential to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and concerns. If you feel hurt or confused by your boyfriend's reluctance to be seen with you in public, have a calm and non-confrontational conversation to understand his perspective. Healthy relationships thrive on open communication and understanding each other's needs and boundaries.
If the issue persists and you feel uncomfortable or unfulfilled in the relationship, it might be necessary to reassess whether the relationship is meeting your needs and expectations. Remember, you deserve to be in a relationship where both partners feel respected, valued, and comfortable being themselves in various settings.