It's essential to remember that any form of violence or coercion in a relationship is not acceptable and may be considered abusive. Choking or any form of physical restraint without your consent is a serious matter and can be dangerous.
When someone puts you in a chokehold or any situation where you feel physically threatened or unable to breathe, it's a red flag for potentially abusive behavior. Additionally, his response of asking, "what did we learn," may indicate a lack of empathy or understanding of the seriousness of his actions.
Abusive behavior can manifest in various ways, including physical, emotional, or psychological abuse. It's important to prioritize your safety and well-being. If you ever feel unsafe or uncomfortable in your relationship, it's crucial to seek help and support.
Consider talking to someone you trust about the situation, such as a friend, family member, or a professional counselor. If you're in immediate danger, don't hesitate to contact local law enforcement or a helpline for domestic violence.
Remember that a healthy relationship should be built on trust, respect, communication, and mutual consent. No one should ever feel afraid or threatened in their relationship.