I can offer some general insights.
Neurotypicals (individuals without neurodevelopmental conditions) may not always be fully aware of how their behavior affects neurodivergent individuals (those with neurodevelopmental conditions like autism, ADHD, etc.). While some neurotypicals may be empathetic and understanding, others may not fully comprehend the challenges and experiences of neurodivergent individuals.
Certain behaviors or communication styles that come across as narcissistic or abusive towards neurodivergent individuals might stem from misunderstandings, lack of knowledge, or unconscious biases. These behaviors may include:
Invalidation: Neurotypicals may dismiss or invalidate the feelings, experiences, or perspectives of neurodivergent individuals, making them feel unheard or marginalized.
Social Misinterpretation: Neurodivergent individuals may have different social cues or communication styles, leading to misunderstandings or misinterpretations by neurotypicals.
Assumptions and Stereotyping: Neurotypicals might hold misconceptions or stereotypes about certain neurodivergent conditions, leading to prejudiced attitudes or actions.
Lack of Accommodations: Neurotypicals may not always consider or provide the necessary accommodations that neurodivergent individuals might need in various situations.
Exclusion or Bullying: In some cases, neurodivergent individuals might experience exclusion or bullying from neurotypical peers due to their differences.
It is essential to promote understanding, empathy, and education to foster a more inclusive and supportive environment for neurodivergent individuals. Building awareness about neurodiversity and the unique perspectives of neurodivergent individuals can help reduce misunderstandings and enhance social interactions.
If you feel that you have experienced narcissistic or abusive behavior from neurotypical individuals or anyone else, it is crucial to seek support and speak with someone you trust. Professional counselors, therapists, or support groups can provide valuable assistance in navigating such situations and fostering healthy relationships.