In Islam, the treatment of children and the concept of parenting are emphasized with great importance. Islam encourages parents to be kind, compassionate, and loving towards their children. Abusive behavior, whether physical, emotional, or verbal, is strictly condemned in Islam.
According to Islamic teachings, parents are responsible for the well-being and proper upbringing of their children. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "All of you are shepherds and each one is responsible for his flock. The leader of people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects; a man is the guardian of his family and is responsible for his subjects; a woman is the guardian of her husband's home and of his children and is responsible for them; and the servant of a man is a guardian of his master's property and is responsible for it. All of you are guardians and are responsible for your charges." (Sahih al-Bukhari)
If parents are found to be abusive towards their children, they are violating this responsibility and are held accountable for their actions in front of Allah. In Islam, the mistreatment of children is considered a major sin.
In some cases, if the abuse is severe and ongoing, it is essential to protect the child from harm. In Islamic societies, just like in many other cultures and legal systems, there may be provisions for intervention by authorities to safeguard the child's well-being. These interventions may include child protection services, legal actions, or counseling for the family.
It's important to remember that Islam encourages compassion, forgiveness, and reform. If a parent recognizes their abusive behavior and shows genuine remorse, seeking forgiveness and making sincere efforts to change their ways, Islam encourages offering them a chance to improve and rectify their mistakes.
However, if you or someone you know is facing abuse, it is crucial to seek help and support from appropriate authorities or organizations that can assist in providing safety and protection. Abusive behavior is never justified, and everyone has the right to live free from harm and violence.