I can provide some general insights into the topic. The perception of physical discipline, such as spankings, can vary widely from person to person and culture to culture. Some individuals may have grown up with spankings as a form of discipline and may not view it as abusive, while others may have had negative experiences and feel that it was abusive.
It's essential to recognize that opinions on physical discipline have evolved over time, and many experts and organizations advocate for non-violent forms of discipline that focus on teaching and guiding children rather than using physical punishment. Research has shown that consistent, positive discipline techniques are more effective in promoting healthy child development and maintaining positive parent-child relationships.
If anyone is concerned about their experiences with discipline as a child or feels that they have endured abuse, it may be beneficial to speak with a mental health professional or counselor to process these feelings and experiences in a supportive and confidential environment.