Yes, pulling a child's hair very hard and slapping a child in the face for petty things are considered abusive behaviors. Physical violence and aggression towards children are not acceptable forms of discipline or behavior under any circumstances.
Child abuse is a serious issue and can have lasting, harmful effects on a child's physical and emotional well-being. Physical abuse, such as hair-pulling and face-slapping, can cause pain, injury, and emotional trauma for the child. It can also damage the trust and bond between the child and the caregiver.
Child discipline should focus on positive, non-violent methods that promote learning, understanding, and growth. Effective discipline techniques involve setting clear boundaries, using age-appropriate consequences, and providing guidance and support for the child's behavior. Positive reinforcement, time-outs, and communication are some of the non-violent strategies that can be used to teach children appropriate behavior.
If you suspect that a child is being subjected to abuse, it is essential to take action to protect the child's safety and well-being. You should report your concerns to the appropriate child protective services or authorities, who can investigate the situation and take appropriate actions to ensure the child's safety.
Additionally, parents or caregivers who are struggling with managing their emotions or parenting challenges can benefit from seeking help and support. Parenting classes, counseling, or therapy can offer valuable tools and resources to develop healthier and more effective parenting strategies.