Yes, hitting someone, including a child, is considered physical abuse. If your mother hits you to the extent that it causes her physical harm, such as popping a blood vessel in her hand, it indicates that the force used was significant and potentially dangerous. Physical abuse is unacceptable and can have serious consequences for both the person being abused and the abuser.
It's crucial to prioritize your safety and well-being in such situations. If you are experiencing physical abuse or know someone who is, seek help immediately. Reach out to a trusted adult, a teacher, a counselor, or a helpline like the National Domestic Violence Hotline (in the U.S.) at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) for guidance and support.
Remember that no one deserves to be abused, and there are resources and support available to help you escape from dangerous situations and begin the process of healing and recovery.