Predicting specific emotional responses in individuals, especially those with complex personality traits or disorders, is challenging. Narcissistic individuals and people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can have intricate and often turbulent relationships due to the unique dynamics between these personality types.
When a narcissist discards a person, their emotional response can vary depending on the individual's level of narcissism, the reasons for the discard, and the specific circumstances surrounding the relationship. Similarly, a person with BPD may respond differently to being discarded based on their emotional state, attachment style, and past experiences.
In some cases, a narcissist may not miss the borderline girl after discarding her because the narcissistic personality traits can lead them to devalue and dismiss others easily. Narcissists may view others as objects or sources of validation, and once they no longer serve that purpose, the narcissist may move on without much remorse or attachment.
On the other hand, some narcissists may feel a sense of loss or regret after discarding a person, especially if the individual with BPD provided a significant amount of attention, admiration, or emotional supply to the narcissist. However, any potential feelings of loss in the narcissist might not be the same as a healthy emotional connection but rather a loss of their source of validation.
Similarly, a person with BPD may experience intense emotions following a discard, including feelings of abandonment and rejection. However, just like with the narcissist, the emotional response of the person with BPD can vary widely based on their individual characteristics and coping mechanisms.
It's important to remember that these relationships can be highly complicated and emotionally charged. If you or someone you know is dealing with a challenging relationship involving a narcissist or BPD, seeking support from mental health professionals can be beneficial in navigating through the complexities and emotional impact of such interactions.