If you suspect that you may have borderline personality disorder (BPD) or any other mental health concern, it's important to seek guidance from a qualified mental health professional who can properly assess your situation and provide appropriate recommendations.
However, I can offer some general information about BPD and relationships. Borderline personality disorder can present challenges in interpersonal relationships due to difficulties with emotional regulation, intense and unstable emotions, fear of abandonment, and patterns of impulsive behavior. People with BPD may experience intense and fluctuating emotions, have difficulties with trust and attachment, and struggle to maintain stable relationships.
If you have been diagnosed with BPD or suspect you may have it, seeking therapy or counseling can be immensely beneficial. Many people with BPD can learn coping strategies, emotional regulation techniques, and ways to improve relationships through therapy, such as dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) or other evidence-based treatments.
It's important to remember that having BPD doesn't mean you cannot have healthy relationships. Many individuals with BPD develop fulfilling and meaningful connections with others, but it may require some additional effort and support.
Ultimately, the decision to pursue or avoid relationships will depend on your unique situation, the severity of your symptoms, and your ability to manage and address the challenges that may arise. A mental health professional can help guide you through this process and provide personalized advice based on your circumstances.