Yes, absolutely! People with neurodevelopmental disorders like autism or ADHD can certainly get along with neurotypical individuals (individuals without such disorders). Friendships and relationships between individuals with and without neurodevelopmental disorders are common and can be very enriching for both parties involved.
It's important to recognize that individuals are unique and diverse, regardless of their neurotypicality or neurodivergence. Personalities, interests, and communication styles vary among people, and these factors have a greater impact on the potential for friendship than neurotypicality alone.
While there may be some challenges in communication and understanding due to the differences in neurology, with patience, empathy, and open-mindedness, these challenges can be overcome. Many people with neurodevelopmental disorders have strong qualities and unique perspectives that can be appreciated and valued by neurotypical individuals, just as neurodivergent individuals can also find value and understanding in neurotypical friendships.
In fact, diverse friendships can be especially beneficial as they can broaden one's horizons, increase empathy, and create a supportive and inclusive social environment. Building strong relationships with people from different backgrounds and experiences can lead to personal growth and a deeper appreciation of individual differences.
Ultimately, what matters most in any friendship or relationship is mutual respect, understanding, and a willingness to learn from and support each other. Neurotypical individuals and those with neurodevelopmental disorders can form meaningful and lasting connections based on shared interests, experiences, and genuine care for one another.