It is important to clarify that a "narc" usually refers to a person who exhibits narcissistic personality traits or has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). People with NPD have a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. Their ability to love someone may be different from that of emotionally healthy individuals.
Narcissists can form attachments and relationships with others, but their love may not be the same as the love experienced by emotionally healthy individuals. For a narcissist, love may be more about fulfilling their own needs, gaining admiration, and maintaining control over the other person.
In the early stages of a relationship, a narcissist might idealize their partner, showering them with affection and attention. However, as the relationship progresses and the initial "honeymoon" phase wears off, a narcissist's true nature may emerge. They may become more self-centered, dismissive of their partner's needs, and may resort to manipulation or emotional abuse to maintain dominance in the relationship.
It is important to recognize that being in a relationship with a narcissist can be emotionally harmful and damaging. People who find themselves in such relationships may benefit from seeking professional help and support to cope with the challenges they face.
In general, if you suspect you are dealing with a narcissistic partner or are in a relationship with someone who exhibits manipulative or abusive behaviors, consider seeking advice from a licensed therapist or counselor to navigate the situation safely and healthily.