Comparing one's partner to others and fixating on physical imperfections is not a healthy or normal behavior in a relationship. It is essential for partners to respect and appreciate each other for who they are, including their physical appearance. Constantly comparing you to other girls and expressing dissatisfaction with your physical features can be emotionally hurtful and damaging to your self-esteem.
It's natural for couples to have open and honest discussions about their feelings and concerns within a relationship. However, it should be done in a constructive and supportive manner. If your husband has issues or concerns, it's important for him to communicate them respectfully and sensitively, without resorting to comparisons or demeaning comments.
It's worth considering having a conversation with your husband about how his comments make you feel and how it affects your relationship. Healthy communication and understanding each other's perspectives are crucial in resolving any issues in a relationship.
If you find that these issues persist and significantly impact your self-esteem and well-being, seeking couples counseling or individual therapy might be helpful to address and work through these concerns. Remember, a strong and healthy relationship is built on mutual respect, support, and appreciation for each other's uniqueness.