No, it is not weird to feel insecure about one's appearance, including the genital area, as a female or any gender. Insecurities about physical appearance are common and experienced by people of all genders. Body image concerns can be influenced by societal beauty standards, media representations, personal experiences, and comparisons to others.
It's important to remember that every individual's body is unique and that there is a wide range of normal and healthy variations in physical appearance. No one should feel ashamed or embarrassed about their body, including their genital area.
If you are feeling particularly distressed about your body image, including concerns about your genital area, it may be helpful to talk to a supportive friend, family member, or a mental health professional. They can offer reassurance, help you challenge negative thoughts, and provide guidance on building a more positive body image.
Additionally, engaging in self-care practices, focusing on things you appreciate about your body beyond appearance (e.g., its capabilities, health, and strength), and cultivating self-compassion can also be beneficial for improving body confidence. Remember that your worth is not determined by your physical appearance, and everyone deserves to feel comfortable and confident in their own skin.