Yes, it is common for therapists to see couples in joint sessions (where both partners attend the session together) and also see one of the clients separately in individual sessions. This therapeutic approach is known as "couple therapy" or "couples counseling" when the therapist works with both partners together, and "individual therapy" when the therapist works with one partner individually.
There are several reasons why a therapist might use this approach:
Addressing individual issues: Sometimes, one or both partners may be dealing with personal issues or unresolved traumas that are affecting their relationship. Individual therapy allows the therapist to work with the individual to address these issues in a more focused and personalized manner.
Privacy and confidentiality: Individual sessions provide a safe and confidential space for clients to discuss personal matters that they might not feel comfortable sharing in front of their partner. It allows for open exploration of sensitive topics without fear of judgment or reprisal.
Balancing power dynamics: In couple therapy, there can be power imbalances between partners. Seeing each partner individually can help balance the dynamics and ensure that both individuals have a voice and feel heard in the therapeutic process.
Focusing on different perspectives: Individual sessions provide an opportunity for the therapist to gain deeper insights into each partner's perspective, thoughts, and feelings, which can be useful for understanding the dynamics within the relationship.
Tailoring treatment: By combining individual and couple sessions, the therapist can customize the treatment plan to meet the unique needs and goals of each partner and the relationship as a whole.
Continuity of care: If one partner has been seeing the therapist individually before starting couple therapy, continuing individual sessions ensures continuity of care and ongoing support for that individual.
It's important to note that therapists who engage in couple therapy and individual therapy with the same clients must maintain professional boundaries and avoid any potential conflicts of interest or ethical violations. They should have clear guidelines for managing confidentiality and avoid sharing information between individual and couple sessions without explicit consent from the clients.
If you are considering couple therapy or individual therapy, it's essential to discuss your needs and preferences with the therapist and ensure that they have experience and expertise in working with couples and/or individuals.