It's important to note that the terms "psychopath" and "sociopath" are not formally recognized diagnoses in the current edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5). However, they are often used colloquially to describe individuals who exhibit certain antisocial or manipulative behaviors.
In the context of a relationship with someone who displays traits commonly associated with psychopathy or sociopathy, the devalue and discard phase typically refers to a pattern where the individual initially idealizes and seduces their partner (the love bombing phase), then gradually devalues them through manipulation, emotional abuse, and cruelty, and finally discards or abandons them once their utility has been served or they have grown bored.
During the devalue and discard phase, individuals with psychopathic or sociopathic traits may exhibit a lack of empathy, remorse, and a propensity for manipulation. Once they discard their partner, their focus may shift to new targets or sources of attention, depending on their personal desires and objectives.
It's essential to understand that everyone's behavior can vary, and not all individuals displaying these traits will follow the same pattern. Additionally, while some individuals may indeed move on to new targets and stop thinking about their previous partners, others may try to maintain some level of control or influence even after the relationship has ended.
If you have experienced or are currently dealing with a toxic relationship, it is crucial to prioritize your well-being and seek support from friends, family, or professional counselors. Understanding and setting healthy boundaries can be essential in moving forward and healing from such experiences.