Whether a guy or a girl should double text depends on the context of their communication and the dynamics of their relationship. Double texting refers to sending a follow-up message without receiving a response to the initial message. Here are some considerations for both scenarios:
1. Double texting by guys:
- It's generally fine to double text if the conversation naturally allows for it. For example, if you're discussing a topic or making plans, a follow-up message might be expected.
- Avoid excessive double texting if the other person is not responding or seems disinterested. Respect their space and time.
- If the person has not responded but you have a new, relevant topic to discuss, you can send a separate message about that new topic.
2. Double texting by girls:
- Girls can also double text if they feel the need to follow up on something or continue a conversation.
- Like guys, avoid excessive double texting, especially if there's no response. Give the other person space and time to reply.
In both cases, the key is to be mindful of the other person's comfort and boundaries. If someone is not responding, it might indicate that they are busy, not interested, or simply unable to reply at the moment. Pressuring someone to respond immediately can be off-putting and may backfire.
Remember, communication should be a two-way street. Both parties should be engaged and interested in the conversation. If you find that one person always has to initiate or double text, it might be worth evaluating the balance and reciprocity in the relationship.
Overall, if you feel the need to double text, make sure your message is respectful, considerate, and relevant to the ongoing conversation. If the person is genuinely interested, they will likely appreciate your effort to maintain communication. However, if you notice a consistent lack of interest or engagement from the other person, it may be a sign that they are not as invested in the relationship as you are. In such cases, it's essential to communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and expectations.