In the context of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and antisocial personality disorder (ASPD), the term "flying monkeys" is often used to describe individuals who enable or support the narcissist or psychopath in their manipulative behavior. The term comes from the idea of the Wicked Witch of the West sending her flying monkeys to do her bidding in the "Wizard of Oz" story.
Flying monkeys can be a variety of people, including:
Former narcissistic supply: These are individuals who were previously targeted by the narcissist or psychopath for their attention, admiration, and validation. The narcissist may have discarded them, but some former supplies may still be emotionally attached or manipulated into supporting the narcissist's agenda.
Friends or acquaintances: Flying monkeys can be individuals who are close to the narcissist or psychopath and who willingly or unwittingly support their manipulative tactics. They may be under the influence of the narcissist's charm, fear the narcissist's anger, or be deceived into believing the narcissist's version of events.
Other narcissists or individuals with ASPD: Sometimes, narcissists or psychopaths may form alliances with other individuals who share similar personality traits. These individuals may collaborate in manipulating and targeting others for their own gain or amusement.
The purposes of flying monkeys can vary, but some common reasons include:
Enabling and supporting the narcissist: Flying monkeys reinforce the narcissist's beliefs and actions, providing them with validation and a sense of power and control.
Smear campaigns: Flying monkeys may engage in spreading rumors or negative information about the narcissist's targets, damaging their reputation and isolating them socially.
Hoovering: The narcissist may use flying monkeys to hoover or attempt to lure back a discarded former supply.
Intimidation and control: Flying monkeys can be used to intimidate or threaten targets, making them more vulnerable to the narcissist's manipulation.
Ego-stroking: The narcissist or psychopath may use flying monkeys to boost their ego and reinforce their grandiose self-image.
It's important to understand that individuals who become flying monkeys may be under the influence of manipulation, fear, or ignorance about the true nature of the narcissist or psychopath. In some cases, they may genuinely believe they are helping or protecting the person, not realizing the harm they are causing to others.
If you find yourself dealing with a situation involving flying monkeys or toxic individuals, seeking support from a qualified mental health professional can be beneficial in navigating these challenging circumstances.