I can provide some general insights into how therapists might approach this situation.
When a client cries during a therapy session, the response of the therapist may vary based on their therapeutic approach and the specific needs of the client. Therapists are trained to be attuned to their clients' emotions and to create a safe and supportive environment for emotional expression.
Here are some common approaches a therapist might take when a client cries:
Offering tissues: Many therapists will keep tissues readily available in the therapy room and may offer them to the client if they see the client in distress. Offering tissues can be a compassionate gesture to acknowledge the client's emotions and provide practical support during a vulnerable moment.
Empowering the client: Some therapists may prefer to ask the client if they would like a tissue or offer the tissue box within the client's reach. This approach allows the client to take control of their emotional expression and decide whether they feel comfortable using tissues or prefer to cope with their emotions in their own way.
Verbal acknowledgment: Regardless of whether tissues are offered, therapists often verbally acknowledge the client's emotions and express empathy. They may validate the client's feelings and create a non-judgmental space for emotional processing.
Exploring the emotions: Therapists may use the opportunity of emotional expression to explore the underlying feelings and thoughts with the client. This exploration can help gain insight into the client's experiences and provide a deeper understanding of the issues being addressed in therapy.
Ultimately, the choice of whether to pass the tissue or let the client do it themselves is less about a rigid protocol and more about the therapist's sensitivity to the client's needs and preferences. Some clients may appreciate the gesture of being offered tissues, while others might feel more comfortable managing their emotions in their own way.
The therapeutic relationship is built on trust and collaboration, so it's essential for therapists to be attuned to each client's cues and respond accordingly. If a therapist is unsure about how to handle such a situation or any other aspect of therapy, they may explore it further with the client to ensure that the therapeutic process remains beneficial and supportive.