please keep in mind that specific ethical guidelines can vary depending on the therapist's professional association and the country's regulations.
Asking about another past client: It is generally considered unethical for a psychotherapist to ask you about another past client, as this would breach confidentiality and violate the principle of maintaining client privacy. Therapists are bound to maintain strict confidentiality regarding their clients, and discussing information about one client with another client is inappropriate and unprofessional.
Contacting a retired therapist: When a therapist retires, they typically terminate their professional relationship with their clients. It is generally not appropriate for a therapist to tell you that you can call and text them after they have retired. Continuing contact with a retired therapist blurs professional boundaries and can be potentially harmful to both parties. In most cases, therapists should provide appropriate referrals to other mental health professionals if ongoing support is needed.
It's essential to maintain clear boundaries in the therapeutic relationship, which helps ensure the safety and well-being of the client and the ethical standards of the profession.
If you find yourself in a situation where you are unsure about the ethical conduct of your therapist or have concerns about their behavior, it's essential to address these concerns directly with the therapist or seek guidance from a professional regulatory body or a mental health advocate organization.
Remember, therapy should be a safe and supportive environment, and if you feel uncomfortable or uncertain about any aspect of the therapeutic relationship, it's important to address it openly and honestly with your therapist.