No, disliking being around a lot of people for an extended period does not necessarily make you antisocial. It's essential to differentiate between two commonly confused terms: "antisocial" and "asocial."
Antisocial: Antisocial behavior refers to behaviors that violate social norms, show a lack of consideration for others, and often involve a disregard for the rights and well-being of others. Antisocial behavior is generally associated with personality disorders like antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) or conduct disorder. People with ASPD may exhibit aggressive, impulsive, and manipulative behaviors, often leading to legal and interpersonal problems.
Asocial: Asocial behavior, on the other hand, simply refers to a preference for limited social interaction or solitude. People who are asocial may not enjoy or seek out social interactions as much as others, and they may feel more comfortable spending time alone or with a few close friends. However, being asocial doesn't necessarily mean lacking social skills or empathy. It's a preference for solitude rather than an aversion to social norms or empathy.
Many people have different levels of social needs and preferences. Some are more extroverted and thrive in social situations, while others are more introverted and prefer spending time alone or with a small group of close friends. Both preferences are entirely normal and fall within the range of typical human behavior.
It's essential to recognize and respect your own social needs and preferences. If you feel comfortable and content with limited social interactions and it doesn't interfere with your daily life or cause significant distress, then there is likely nothing to be concerned about.
However, if you find that your social preferences are causing distress, isolation, or negatively impacting your relationships or well-being, it might be helpful to talk to a mental health professional. They can provide support, help you better understand your preferences, and explore whether there might be underlying factors contributing to your feelings.