People with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) and those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are both characterized by difficulties in forming healthy and empathetic relationships, but they may respond differently at the end of a relationship.
In the case of individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), they often struggle with a fragile sense of self-esteem and an intense need for admiration and validation. When a relationship ends, they may feel deeply wounded and humiliated, leading them to perceive themselves as the victim. Their response is often driven by their fear of abandonment and a perceived attack on their self-worth. They might engage in behaviors like seeking revenge, blaming others entirely for the breakup, or portraying themselves as the victim to gain sympathy and attention from others.
On the other hand, individuals with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) tend to have a pervasive pattern of disregard for the rights and feelings of others. They may not experience emotions like guilt or remorse to the same extent as most people. When a relationship ends, they might not feel victimized or experience the emotional pain that others do. Instead, they may be more likely to move on quickly without much consideration for the consequences of their actions or the impact on the other person involved.
It's important to note that these are general tendencies, and not all individuals with ASPD or NPD will fit these descriptions precisely. Personality disorders exist on a spectrum, and people with these disorders may exhibit different behaviors and responses based on individual differences, life experiences, and the severity of their condition.
If you or someone you know is dealing with the aftermath of a relationship with someone who has a personality disorder, seeking support from a mental health professional can be beneficial in understanding and processing the emotions involved and moving forward in a healthy way.