Yes, psychologists and therapists do sometimes have clients who leave the sessions without notice and never come back. This phenomenon is known as "client dropout" or "client attrition."
The reasons for client dropout can be varied and complex. Some clients may feel that therapy is not helping them, while others might find it difficult to open up and share their thoughts and feelings. Personal or financial issues, scheduling conflicts, or simply feeling uncomfortable with the therapeutic process can also contribute to clients discontinuing therapy abruptly.
How psychologists and therapists feel about client dropout can also vary. Some may feel disappointed or frustrated, especially if they have invested time and effort in building a therapeutic relationship and are genuinely invested in helping their clients. They might wonder if there was something they could have done differently to keep the client engaged in therapy.
However, it's important to recognize that client dropout is a natural part of the therapeutic process and is not always indicative of the therapist's skills or the effectiveness of the therapy. Therapy can be a challenging journey, and not all clients are ready or willing to engage in the process fully.
Experienced therapists understand that client dropout is a common occurrence and try not to take it personally. They may discuss and explore the reasons for discontinuation in supervision or with colleagues to gain insights and consider any potential improvements in their therapeutic approach. They focus on the clients who are actively engaged and continue to support their well-being and progress.
Ultimately, therapists prioritize the well-being and autonomy of their clients. If a client decides to leave therapy, they respect that decision and remain open to the possibility of them returning if they choose to do so in the future. The therapist's role is to provide a supportive and non-judgmental space for clients to explore their issues, but they cannot force clients to continue if they are not ready or willing to do so.