It's essential to prioritize safety in any situation, especially when there is a threat of physical harm.
First and foremost, threats of physical violence are unacceptable and are a form of emotional abuse. No one should feel threatened or unsafe in their relationship. If your boyfriend has threatened to physically hurt you more than once, it is a serious red flag and a clear indication of an unhealthy and potentially dangerous relationship.
While I understand that you may have felt cornered and scared in the situation, responding with physical aggression is not an ideal solution. Physical violence can escalate the situation and put both you and your boyfriend at risk of harm. It's crucial to find non-violent ways to protect yourself and prioritize safety.
If you are experiencing abuse in your relationship, it's important to seek help and support. Reach out to someone you trust, such as a friend, family member, or counselor, and talk about what you're going through. Consider contacting a domestic violence hotline or support organization that can offer guidance and resources tailored to your situation.
Remember that everyone deserves to be treated with respect and kindness in a relationship. If you feel unsafe or threatened, it may be necessary to consider ending the relationship to protect yourself from further harm. Your safety and well-being should always be the top priority.