Yes, people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) are capable of experiencing love and forming committed, long-lasting relationships. Like anyone else, individuals with BPD have a range of emotions and desires, including the capacity for romantic love and forming deep connections with others.
However, it is important to recognize that BPD can present unique challenges in relationships. Individuals with BPD often experience intense and fluctuating emotions, have difficulty regulating their emotions, and may struggle with self-esteem and identity issues. These challenges can sometimes impact their relationships and make maintaining long-term commitments more difficult.
That said, with proper treatment and support, people with BPD can work on developing healthier coping strategies and improving relationship skills. Therapy, such as dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), can be highly beneficial in helping individuals with BPD learn emotional regulation techniques, communication skills, and ways to form more stable and satisfying relationships.
It's also important to note that not everyone with BPD will experience the same difficulties in relationships, and there are many successful and fulfilling long-term relationships involving individuals with BPD. The key is to seek help, engage in therapy, and communicate openly with one's partner to navigate the challenges and foster a healthy and supportive relationship.