I can tell you that manipulation tactics used by narcissistic partners can vary widely and are often aimed at controlling and manipulating their victims for their own benefit. Some common manipulation tactics that narcissists may employ include:
Gaslighting: Manipulating the victim's perception of reality, making them doubt their own thoughts, feelings, and memories.
Blame-shifting: Avoiding responsibility for their actions and making the victim feel guilty or responsible for the narcissist's behavior.
Emotional blackmail: Using emotions, guilt, or threats to get what they want from the victim.
Love bombing: Overwhelming the victim with excessive affection, attention, and compliments at the beginning of the relationship to establish control.
Devaluation and discard: Idealizing the victim initially and then devaluing and discarding them once they no longer serve the narcissist's needs.
Silent treatment: Ignoring or giving the cold shoulder to manipulate the victim's emotions and behavior.
Triangulation: Creating conflicts or jealousy by involving a third party to create tension and gain control.
Hoovering: Attempting to draw the victim back into the relationship after a discard, often using manipulation and false promises of change.
It's important to remember that not everyone who exhibits challenging behavior is a narcissist, and diagnosing someone requires a professional evaluation. If you suspect you are in a relationship with a manipulative partner, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional to help you navigate the situation and protect your well-being.