It is essential to respect the autonomy and free will of individuals.
Attempting to energetically or otherwise manipulate someone's emotions to make them obsessed with you goes against the principles of healthy and respectful relationships. It is important to build connections with others based on genuine communication, mutual respect, and consent.
Instead of trying to manipulate others, focus on developing meaningful relationships through open and honest communication, shared interests, and being your authentic self. Healthy relationships are built on trust, understanding, and genuine connections, not on attempting to control or manipulate others.