While it's essential to avoid making sweeping generalizations about any group of people, including narcissists and women, it's crucial to understand the nature of narcissism and its effects on relationships.
Narcissists, by definition, have a personality disorder characterized by a grandiose sense of self-importance, a lack of empathy, and a constant need for admiration and validation. In relationships, they often struggle to genuinely respect and value others, regardless of gender.
Narcissists tend to objectify and devalue individuals, using them as sources of narcissistic supply (i.e., attention, admiration, and validation) rather than seeing them as independent and valuable individuals with their own needs and desires.
While narcissists may initially idealize and admire someone in the early stages of a relationship (the idealization phase), this often changes over time. As the relationship progresses, the narcissist's true nature can emerge, leading to devaluation and mistreatment of their partner, regardless of their gender.
It's important to note that not all people with narcissistic traits or narcissistic personality disorder will behave the same way, and some individuals might be capable of showing temporary respect and admiration towards others, including women, in certain contexts. However, such instances are often superficial and driven by the narcissist's self-serving motives rather than genuine respect.
In any case, it's crucial for individuals in relationships with narcissists to recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior and consider seeking support, such as counseling or therapy, to navigate the challenges of such relationships. Additionally, setting healthy boundaries and prioritizing self-care is essential when dealing with narcissistic individuals.