While narcissists exhibit a wide range of manipulative and harmful behaviors, there are certain things they are unlikely or unwilling to do due to their personality traits and self-centered nature. Here are some things a narcissist is less likely to do:
Take responsibility for their actions: Narcissists often struggle to admit when they are wrong or take responsibility for the harm they cause. Instead, they may deflect blame onto others or deny any wrongdoing.
Show genuine empathy: Narcissists lack true empathy for others because they are primarily focused on their own needs and desires. They may feign empathy to manipulate or control others, but they don't genuinely feel and understand others' emotions.
Accept criticism or feedback: Narcissists have fragile egos and may react defensively or aggressively when confronted with criticism or feedback. They are more likely to become dismissive, angry, or retaliate rather than reflect on their actions and make positive changes.
Prioritize others' needs and feelings: A narcissist's primary concern is themselves, and they are less likely to prioritize the needs, feelings, or well-being of others, including close friends or family.
Acknowledge their own flaws: Narcissists often have a grandiose self-image and a deep fear of being perceived as inadequate. As a result, they may avoid acknowledging their flaws or vulnerabilities.
Accept boundaries: Narcissists have a sense of entitlement and may struggle with accepting boundaries set by others. They may attempt to break or manipulate these boundaries to maintain control over a person or situation.
Show vulnerability or emotional openness: Due to their fear of appearing weak or inferior, narcissists may avoid showing vulnerability or emotional openness. They prefer to maintain a facade of strength and invulnerability.
Support others' successes: Narcissists may feel threatened by the success or achievements of others, especially those they consider as competition. Consequently, they may not genuinely celebrate or support others' accomplishments.
Admit they need help or seek therapy: The nature of narcissism makes it challenging for them to recognize that they might have a problem or need psychological help. They may resist therapy or counseling, even when it could benefit them.
Engage in healthy self-reflection: Narcissists tend to have a distorted self-image and an inability to introspect critically. They might lack the ability to engage in genuine self-reflection and personal growth.
It's important to remember that narcissism exists on a spectrum, and not all individuals who exhibit some narcissistic traits are diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). However, regardless of the level of narcissism, being in a relationship with a narcissistic person can be challenging and emotionally harmful. If you suspect you are dealing with a narcissist, consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor to navigate the situation and protect your well-being.