Human behavior is complex and can vary greatly from one person to another.
Narcissistic relationships can be tumultuous and challenging. If you have given a narcissist "narcissistic injuries" (i.e., actions or words that threaten their fragile self-esteem or self-image) and then discarded them, their reaction could vary based on their individual personality and the specific circumstances of your relationship.
Here are some potential scenarios, though these are general possibilities and not guaranteed outcomes:
Hoovering: Some narcissists may attempt to "hoover" you back into the relationship after a discard. Hoovering is a term used to describe their efforts to draw you back in through manipulation, promises to change, or renewed love-bombing. They might do this to regain control, seek validation, or satisfy their ego.
Silent Treatment or Disinterest: Others might respond to the narcissistic injury and discard by giving you the silent treatment or displaying disinterest. This reaction can also be a way for them to exert control or to protect their wounded ego.
Moving On: In some cases, a narcissist might move on to a new target or source of narcissistic supply, especially if they find someone who provides them with ample attention and admiration.
Retaliation: Depending on the severity of the narcissistic injury and the individual's vindictiveness, they might retaliate or try to harm your reputation out of a desire for revenge.
It's crucial to remember that maintaining no contact or setting healthy boundaries is often essential when dealing with a narcissistic individual. Narcissistic relationships can be emotionally and psychologically damaging, and breaking free from such relationships is usually the best course of action for one's well-being.
If you find yourself struggling to cope with the aftermath of a narcissistic relationship or are concerned about your emotional well-being, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional who can help you navigate through this challenging time. Remember, your well-being and happiness should always be a top priority.