The response to silent treatment from a narcissist can vary depending on their individual personality, the dynamics of the relationship, and other factors. However, there are some general patterns that might occur if you don't react to the silent treatment:
Intensification: Initially, the narcissist might intensify the silent treatment to try and elicit a reaction from you. They may escalate their efforts to get your attention, including using more aggressive tactics, or resorting to manipulation and mind games.
Testing Boundaries: Narcissists are known to test boundaries to see if they can regain control over their targets. By not reacting to the silent treatment, you are setting a boundary that you will not be manipulated by their tactics. They may test this boundary repeatedly to see if it will eventually break.
Seeking Supply Elsewhere: Narcissists crave attention and validation ('narcissistic supply'). If they realize that their silent treatment is not affecting you as intended, they might seek validation and attention from other sources, such as new friends or partners.
Attempted Re-Engagement: If the narcissist perceives that their silent treatment is not having the desired effect, they might attempt to re-engage with you in other ways. They may try other manipulative tactics, such as love bombing (excessive praise and affection) or hoovering (trying to draw you back into the relationship).
Disengagement: In some cases, if the narcissist realizes that their silent treatment isn't working and you are not giving in to their manipulation, they might decide to move on to a new target who they believe will be more susceptible to their tactics.
It's important to note that dealing with a narcissist can be emotionally challenging and draining. Setting boundaries and not reacting to their manipulation is crucial for your well-being. However, it's equally important to ensure your safety and seek support from friends, family, or a therapist who can provide guidance and understanding during this process.
Remember that you cannot change a narcissist's behavior, but you can control how you respond to it. Focus on your self-care, emotional healing, and building healthy relationships with people who respect and appreciate you for who you are.